Your uniqueness is your strength, it is your point of difference and it is what makes you, YOU. In a world that likes to tell us we aren’t smart enough, pretty enough, skinny enough or good enough just as we are, I am here to tell you otherwise. You are perfect exactly the way you are and you have everything you will ever need within you. By owning that quirk that makes you unique you stand in your truth and power to live an authentic life being the one and only best version of yourself.
It makes sense right?
We are the only one of us; there will never be another person that acts, looks or is exactly like us. Life is a miracle and you are a miracle by just showing up exactly as you are. No masks, no people pleasing or role-playing. Doesn’t that feel empowering?
It feels SO empowering to me to just show up as myself, I spent so long people pleasing, doing things for others and making sure all the boxes were ticked and I quickly learnt this is the fastest way to overwhelm, exhaustion and depletion not to mention an empty self love cup and minimal happiness.
So my advice is to first get really clear on what makes you unique, what makes you different to your friends, family or colleagues for example and what it is you love learning and doing in your spare time. Think what lights you up, puts a smile on your face, makes you feel alive, what you like googling, reading and researching. If you and I both answered these questions here now together, the answers would be completely different and that’s EXACTLY what we want.
Once you have that established it is just about embracing it, welcoming it into your life (daily) and fully owning it. Don’t worry if it feels foreign at the start, it will do – keep practicing and practicing and before you know it, it will become the new normal to you. Then you won’t know yourself. Living from this place of truth and authenticity not only sets you up for ultimate happiness but also is the basis of living your best life.
I want to share a few little pointers that have helped me along the way, so I am sure they will be able to help and support you too!
+ DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY every single day
I know everyone says it and you might be thinking it sounds too easy to be true but simplicity is key for a lifetime full of happiness and it can be this simple. Ask yourself – does it make me happy? Tune in and listen for the answer. If the answer is a ‘no’ then you are not serving yourself or anyone else by proceeding. On the other hand, if you only do what makes you happy from the core, you are in fact showing up as the best version of yourself.
+ TUNE INTO YOUR INTUTION it holds your super powers
So hard to describe, yet such a powerful human instinct. Our intuition is always there, whether we’re aware of it or not and it can be described as our voice that doesn’t use words. So start tuning inwards, deeply listen and then act accordingly. By doing so we are living in line with what we truly desire and what we came here to do. You will find your uniqueness and intuition talk, overlap and work together perfectly.
These few things will really support your heart and soul on this journey towards owning your uniqueness. I want you to remember that you are perfect exactly the way you are, you are enough and you are not broken, you do not need fixing.
Go and Shine beauty, just like you deserve.
Jenna Maree xo
Jenna Maree is a heart-driven Holistic Life Coach who guides and supports women through their journey of inner-transformation, empowering you to become the best version of yourself. Jenna believes true health and wellness comes from cultivating a positive mindset, finding what works for you as an individual, nourishing your body with real food and supporting the body’s natural ability to heal.
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